Large Family Traveling Logistics – Controlling the Chaos

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Gathering luggage – St. Croix airport, 2007

 

 

In May my husband and I succeeded in traveling to seven parks in nine days with our nine children and a babysitter.  It was no small feat, and every previous family vacation was a rehearsal for this “big one”.  How did we do it?  I hope to share a few bits of wisdom.  I wish a had more pictures to share of things we did to simplify the complications, but at those busy times, photography was the last thing on my mind.  Instead, I shall fill in the white spaces of places we have traveled with children.  Yes, it can be done!

 

 

 

 

Grand Cayman, 2007

1.  When navigating an airport, I dress my children all in matching shirts.  You would think the older children would balk, but they actually seem to possess, instead, a “team spirit”, making the whole ordeal more fun.  The shirts allow me to quickly find children who might stray from the group, but they also enable others to identify us as a group traveling together.  One of the benefits of that is having your family singled out and moved to a shorter line for quicker processing.  That has happened more than twice.

Rum Point, Grand Cayman, 2011

2.  All domestic airports require you to remove your shoes for security screening.  Allow your younger children to wear quick, slip on shoes such as Crocs.  There is nothing like tying ten shoes or needing a shoe horn to dampen your spirits and increase your stress level.  Oh, and make sure your children can walk comfortably and quickly in the shoes they wear.  Airport transfers routinely require lengthy and brisk walks.

Island hopping with son, Bonaire and Curacao, 2007

3.  For domestic flights, allow at least one hour between connections.  Even small delays can make it impossible for you to disembark from one flight and get to the next gate in time.  For international flights, allow at least two hours.

Magic Kingdom, Orlando, FL 2011

4.  When you arrive at an airport, go immediately to find your gate.  Do not buy lunch.  Do not browse for magazines.  Do not try on sunglasses.  Find your gate and check your departure time. Sometimes, for different reasons, flights are moved to a different gate.  You do not want to wait until boarding time to discover that the flight you expected to leave from A 12 is now leaving from C 28, and you will have to get a bus to transfer you there.

Edison Winter Estate, Ft. Myers, FL, 2008

5.  Pack each child’s clothing into a carry-on sized bag and specifically limit what they are to bring.  Our trip to Utah and Arizona required us to change hotels often.  We did not possess the time or space to empty and repack the contents of a suitcase each day.

Wilhemstadt, Curacao 2007

6.  Make a specific list of what children are to pack. Be specific:  9 pairs of socks, 9 pairs of underwear, 1 rain jacket, 1 warm sweater or sweatshirt, 2 pairs of pants, 1 pair of shorts, 3 short-sleeved shirts, 2 long-sleeved shirts…

Dayton, TN 2009

7.  Lay the clothes out together and make sure there are outfits that match.  Expect multiple wears out of clean clothing.

George L. Smith State Park, Metter, GA 2009

8.  You will probably want to take photographs of your children when you travel, so you may want to make sure they selected clothing that actually looks good.  My boys all seem to have favorite shirts that they want to live in and somehow the older ones seem to smuggle them into their bags.  At least I can limit the choices for the little ones.

St. Croix, 2007 (I was six months pregnant)

9.  Pack each child’s socks and underpants into individual bags and LABEL THEM.  While the 3-year-old may have no qualms about wearing the 9-year-old’s underpants, the older child will likely be unwilling to squeeze into the younger child’s size 2T Superman undies.

Brevard, NC 2008

10.  Check as many bags as you can.  We flew Delta to Las Vegas, and because we have a Delta card, we were able to check up to 9 pieces of luggage without additional charge.  That made it a lot easier to board our aircraft and to make our connection.  We didn’t have to expend the time and effort getting carry-on pieces out of the overhead bins.

Turtle Farm, Grand Cayman, 2011

11.  Because checked luggage can easily be lost or delayed, pack one outfit for each child into a backpack to be carried onto the plane.

Tybee Beach, GA 2010

12.  Make a  detailed list of your luggage and to whom it belongs:  1. Blue Samsonite – Catherine, 2. Black LL Bean – Andrew, etc.  List also what bags will be carried on, including handbags.  When you are amassing a heap of luggage at the airport, it is tough to keep a count of the bags.   And you can not expect little ones to accurately recollect that their bags have arrived or remember what they looked like.  Check that list!  Then re-use it every time you change hotels.

"King of the Mtn." on an anchor, Beaufort, SC 2010

13.  Identical ribbons or strips of fabric tied to luggage handles make bag identification simple.  Do you have any idea how many identical black bags there are on any given flight?

Ziplines, Roatan, Honduras, 2009

 

14.  Airports are designed to ease the rapid transport of large groups of people. For that reason, there are lots of signs.  Take a moment to explain to your children how to read the signs.  Engage them in actively looking for the right path, whether to the next gate, the luggage carousel, the parking lot.  This is an important skill, and will greatly reduce traveling anxiety if they should ever need to fly alone.

Scuba diving, Marathon, FL 2006

15.  You will undoubtedly encounter various clerks with a wide range of competency levels.  Sometimes you will need to “educate” them about the plan you have purchased.  Always, always bring a paper copy that spells out of terms and conditions of  your purchase.  For our 20th wedding anniversary, my husband flew us business class via KLM to go hiking in France.  The airline representative in Nice had never before seen anyone checking baby items (stroller, car seat, back pack) on business class and was quite clueless as to our allowance.  Paper-proof brought quick order to the situation.  Furthermore many airlines and hotels offer specials online, but don’t communicate what you purchased with the reservation.  I had the misfortune of having to stay in three different Courtyard by Marriot hotels in a five week time period.  In each hotel, the front desk had no record that I had purchased a breakfast buffet with my room.  Having to dig up proof each time was wearisome, to say the least.  Finally, the last hotel clerk explained to me, “We have no idea what specials they run online. No one ever tells us.”  The burden of proof may be on you.  Print it off and bring it along!

Hiking in Provence, France 2010

16.  If you require special accommodations at a hotel, call them when you are en route to communicate that you are on your way.  Perhaps you require wheelchair accessibility or a baby crib.  My older daughter plays a harp, and so when we travel with her harp, we request ground floor rooms in hotels with stairs.  There was nothing quite like arriving in a Courtyard by Marriot a few years ago without my husband,  with 8 children and a cooler full of food and discovering upon arrival that not only had they given away the suite with a refrigerator that I had reserved, but also they had placed my children and me in rooms on separate floors!  Now I make it a habit to call:  “Hello, I have reservations, we are on our way and will be arriving after supper time.  I reserved a baby crib.  Could you make sure that a crib is saved for me?  I will have a car load of very sleepy children…”

Kauai, Hawaii 2006

17.  Traveling can be stressful. Connections can be missed, flights cancels, luggage lost.  The people we encounter across the desk spend all day dealing with anxious and angry people.  It is a tough job, and I wouldn’t want to do it.  Treat them with courtesy. A calm voice, a genuine smile, and a kind “thank you” are the right way to interact with clerks, competent or otherwise.  It is the right thing to do.

Because we are a large family, many people observe us that we do not ourselves notice.  Our behavior is a testimony of whom we serve.  It is my hope that people will see how much we love Christ by how we love others.


 

Comments (2) Aug 15 2011

Water Photo Fun

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sprayground fun

Every family outing does not have to be to an exciting location or a unique experience.  Even regular, everyday fun can sometimes be enhanced by capturing it with a camera.  These photos were taken last summer when our family spent the afternoon at a YMCA pool.  This pool has a slide and a wonderful “sprayground”, where jets of water shoot up from all directions, and buckets of water pour down upon your head.  The goal of taking these photographs was to capture the brilliant colors, the action, and tack sharp focus on the drops of water.  All were taken from a distance with a telephoto lens, of course, for water is a camera’s enemy.  A different style-choice would be to make the water look streaked and blurry, but that wasn’t my desire.

 

 

 

The final stretch

Deploying goggles

The plunge

Looking at the photographs stimulates my memories.  I can hear the water splashing and remember the squeals of the children.  I remember the warmth of the sun and the cool shock of the water on hot skin.  I even recall that familiar pool smell:  chlorine and sunscreen.

Bracing for the cold

These photographs were taken with a Nikon D700, ISO 400, lens 70 x 200 mm f/2.8.

Squeals of delight

My children continue to enjoy that simple day at the pool whenever the photographs scroll through the desktop screensaver.  They always cause us to pause and giggle, with a “Hey, I remember that day…”

The dreaded bucket dumps out.

Simple pleasures can bring simple joys.

Summer fun

 

Comments (0) Jul 29 2011

Grand Canyon

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South Rim of the Grand Canyon

A fervent desire to visit the Grand Canyon and to share the experience with all of my children was the impetus for undertaking our family adventure out west.  I wanted to stand beside them and gaze into the mighty gorge, and so seal that into our collective family memories.  My expectations were high, and with good reason.    I know a woman who took her children to all fifty states and to them the Grand Canyon was the favorite destination.  A few years ago a former governor of Maine loaded his family into an RV and they traveled around North America for a year.  He chronicled his experience on NPR, and I still remember him saying the Grand Canyon was the greatest;  nothing else was a close second.  Like I said, my expectations were high.

When our family arrived at the South Rim of the Grand Canyon, after a long drive from Moab, Utah, we rushed to the first available observation point to experience the sensation.  We arrived shortly before sunset, an ideal time to capture the moment.  And as we gazed out across the Grand Canyon it was… anticlimactic.

Sunset

Now don’t get me wrong!  The Grand Canyon is sensational!  But it is sort of like pursuing a big name celebrity and overlooking the genuine talent of parks like Bryce, Zion, and Canyonlands.  The Grand Canyon was not the star of the show.  Instead it was just one of the components that made our trip out west a completely satisfying experience.

Dusk

Last glimmer of sun

Traveling with many young children had its limitations.  It would have been impractical for us to hike rim to rim, to ride mules to the canyon floor, or to raft down the Colorado River.  Lord willing, I hope one day to return with those little ones for some big kid fun.   However traveling with a babysitter opened up hiking opportunities we otherwise could not have enjoyed.  Our formula for each day was similar to the other parks.  The older kids, my husband, and I would rise early and hike a strenuous trail.  The little ones would sleep in, watch cartoons, then join us for easy hikes in the afternoon.

Three oldest sons on South Rim

Water break at Skeleton Point

 

Our first morning we hiked the South Kaibob Trail.  We started at Yaki Point, descended three miles, ending at Skeleton Point.  The downhill jolting of our joints was unpleasant.

Unending switchbacks

My oldest son developed blisters and my husband was suspecting stress fractures. The uphill climb, while strenuous, felt like a relief!  That afternoon we took our children on a five mile stroll along the rim.  We were able to push the stroller, which gave the youngest ones a rest.

3-year-old son and 18-year-old daughter

Everyone enjoys the Rim Trail

The next morning was our last and biggest hike of all.  We hiked Bright Angel Trail to Plateau Point.  The trail was 12.2 miles, and an elevation change of 3000 feet.  Even though we were at the trailhead at 6:00 in the morning, we had a sense of urgency as we hiked.  We needed to reconnect with the babysitter and leave the park around noon.  So this trail that usually takes 8 hours or more was hiked by us an average of 6 hours.  And it was tough!  It felt like I was climbing up irregular stairs for 4.5 miles.

Looking DOWN to Plateau Point

View from Plateau Point

Plateau Point - rest for the weary

The shadeless plateau

Everywhere you look around the Grand Canyon, there are warnings about the potential for death.  Countless signs warn about the possibility of death if you attempt to hike to the river and back in one day.  There are even photographs of people who have died  attempting that, include a fit, athletic female marathoner.  Of course we didn’t even try that, but I could see how quickly a hiker could be overtaken by the heat and exertion.  As we descended, the temperature increased steadily.  By the time we reached the last 1.5 miles to Plateau Point, it was quite warm and our trail was entirely shadeless.  Furthermore, the dry air made me require more water than I typically consume while hiking.  Bright Angel Trail has rest areas about every 1.5 miles where water supplies can usually be replenished. (Apparently the availability is seasonal, but we had no difficulty getting water.)  I drank 4 liters of water on my ascent to the top.  I can see how quickly someone could be overwhelmed by heat exhaustion if not sufficiently hydrated.

My macabre fifteen-year-old son

My fifteen-year-old son has a fascination with macabre facts.  Throughout our trip out west, he regaled us with statistics about death and injury in national parks.   It is true – wild America can be dangerous.  It would be easy to forget that as you are mesmerized by the dreamy landscapes.  Hence the constant reminders.  In fact the newspaper headlines at the Grand Canyon noted that a body found earlier that month  in one of the canyons had been identified.  When browsing through books in a gift store, we discovered the perfect pleasure read for him-  Over the Edge: Death in Grand Canyon.  It was a hefty tome.  No one wanted to haul it back in their luggage.  So with a few clicks through Amazon.com, the book was ordered.  It arrived at our home before we did!

Not exactly great literature...

Leaving the Grand Canyon felt bittersweet.  The trip of a lifetime had been realized.   In 9 days we visited 7 parks with our 9 children, drove 1650 miles,  hiked over 70 miles, and took 1700 photographs.  The trip had unfolded without complication. What could we possibly do next?  It was intensely satisfying when my seven-year-old son chimed up from the backseat, “Can we do this again next year?”

Seven-year-old eager traveler

 

 

 

Comments (0) Jun 28 2011

Arches

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North Window

 

Arches National Park is like a glamorous diva:  drop dead beautiful, photogenic, and oh so moody.  One moment she would grace us  with a bright blue sky, then moments later her mood would darken, and we would hiding from rain, or worse – hail.  Then her  mood would change and we would be treated to a glorioius rainbow.

 

 

 

Pea-sized hailstones

Soothing rainbow

Another rainbow

Threatening storm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We never knew there could be so many varieties of rock formations and erosion, and Arches presented us with yet another variation.  In so many other parks we visited the layers of rock  were stacked vertically, like layers of birthday cake.  The rocks of Arches were stacked horizontally, like slices of sandwich bread. Gaps eroded between the slices of rock and  formed slot canyons.  Then the softer insides of the slices eroded away to form an arch.  Just like so many rejected sandwich crusts!

Rocks arranged like bread slices

Slot canyon on Sand Dune Arch trail

Sand Dune Arch

Delicate Arch is the most famous and recognizable arch in the park.  It graces the Utah license plates and countless t-shirts and mugs.  Delicate Arch can be viewed from a distance from a moderate, yet short, trail.

Delicate Arch viewed from Upper Viewpoint Trail

Boy on rock - happy combination

To actually hike to the arch is a different path altogether.  Although only a three mile hike, it is considered strenuous because of the slickrock and elevation gain.  I am glad we got an early start so that we had a moment “alone” with the arch before the crush of hikers!

My big girl in the Framing Arch with Delicate Arch in the distance

Slickrock hiking

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Delicate Arch

Landscape Arch

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A man told me that he was staying in a bed and breakfast inn owned by fifth-generation Moabites (Moab is the charming town that services Arches).  He was told that Delicate Arch and Landscape Arch were accidentally misnamed when their labels were switched many years ago.  But I also heard from another source that the “mislabeling” story was just legend.    But when I compare the arches, I am inclined to believe they were misnamed.  Add to that the fact that twenty years ago Landscape Arch dropped about 180 tons of rock from its lower edge while a handful of hikers looked on in terror.  That seems rather “delicate” to me.

In addition to the arches, there other interesting features.

Balanced Rock

Balanced Rock is enormous, unusual, and unsettling.

Petrified dunes

There are breathtaking vistas of petrified dunes, with the snow-capped La Sal Mountains in the distance.

Park Avenue trail

Park Avenue, a moderately easy two-mile hike was enjoyed even by the littlest child.

Ancient petriglyphs

And also we saw petriglyphs.  But honestly, as a mother who has cleaned way too much Sharpie marker off of way too many walls, petriglyphs never impress me much.

Making his own sand dune arch.

For my three-year-old son, Arches National Park left an impression.  Making his own arches is now a hobby for him.  With one simple bite his bagel becomes an arch.  His banana is an arch.  Rip a danish in two, bite out the cheesy center and there you have it!  Another arch.  I hope that as we share our experiences together, looking at photos and recounting our memories, that we will be able to make this experience a lasting impression.

 

Even my baby girl enjoys the view from the North Window.

Comments (0) Jun 11 2011

Capitol Reef – Who knew?

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Capitol Reef National Park

Who knew that stone could be sculpted by erosion into so many forms? Or that so many visual delights would await our family at Capitol Reef National Park!

 

 

 

Capitol Reef is a unique rock structure formed by what is called the ‘waterpocket fold”.  I had never heard of the park before my husband began planning our big family vacation.  There is a good reason why this amazing place became home to only a few Mormon pioneers, explorers, and outlaws.  It is remote!

 

 

Traveling to Capitol Reef requires many hours of driving across high Utah desert.  Such a drive might have been monotonous except that we were entertained by a symphony of cloud formations!

"For our Lord God Omnipotent Reigneth"...

Grand Staircase-Escalante National Monument

Contemplating the infinite

Symphony of clouds

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If clouds could sing, I think these would be singing the “Hallelujah Chorus”.  Can’t you just hear the words when you look at sky: For our LORD God Omnipotent reigneth.  Hallelujah!  Hallelujah!

Think we took too many cloud photographs? Ha, if only you knew.

 

Capitol Reef possessed features that we found in other parks: cliffs, canyons, petriglyphs, hoodoos, arches.  There was something for everyone to enjoy.

Capitol Gorge

Everyone gets to hike Grand Wash

Our hometown of Savannah is entirely flat.  We also don’t have any rocks. Therefore the opportunity to climb rocks was a favorite activity of my boys.  The rock structures that we hiked on are called “slickrock”  and feel much safer than the sandstone or crushed rock we hiked on earlier.  Even my baby girl loved to hold and carry rocks. She even tried to conceal a few in her diaper.   An easy hike through the Grand Wash allowed all members of the family to enjoy the rocks and wildflowers up close.

Climbing slickrock

So many rocks! So little a girl!

An opportunity to look into the opening of an abandoned uranium mine made my boys feel virile and tough.  I was not impressed, but then again,  I practically grew up next door to Oak Ridge National Laboratories.

Abandoned uranium mines

I am rather partial to wildlife, and so I was thrilled to see these blue birds.  I could have watched them all day, but they were not inclined to sit still.

Love those blue birds!

The next morning my husband awoke early and peeked out to check the weather conditions.  He caught the last few moments of a spectacular sunrise.  When he stopped photographing for a moment to change his lens, the moment had passed.

Sunrise on Capitol Reef

The older children, my husband, and I hit the trails bright and early.  We first hiked Chimney Rock Loop.  My fifteen-year-old complained that the name of the trail was “not germane”.  You hike above the Chimney Rock and look down upon it, but you don’t get to actually climb it.  We did enjoy abundant desert wildflowers and also a  “grove” of petrified tree trunks.

Chimney Rock - see our tiny car beyond it.

Our second hike was to climb Cassidy Arch.  Legend has it that Butch Cassidy hid in that canyon.  The moment we summited the arch, there was an enormous clap of thunder and we could see a thunderstorm moving rapidly in our direction.  And here we were standing upright and alone on a dome of slickrock, as if to say, “Come and get me!”  We did not hesitate a moment to contemplate the view.  We made quick time to the trail head, passing a few fools who were continuing the upward climb, just as the clouds opened up and began to pour.  We made it to our car as pea-sized hail rained down upon us.  I am so thankful we did not pause! That was painful!

Cassidy Arch

I don’t suppose people traveling from afar would ever say that they are going to Utah to visit Capitol Reef.  It really isn’t a good destination, but it is a worthwhile side trip.  It figures very prominently on my children’s list of highlights.

The whole family squinting in the dust

 

 

Comments (0) Jun 07 2011

Return from the West

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Utah landscape

 

The lush green trees of Savannah were a welcome, familiar sight to our family as our plane landed at the Savannah airport.  We had returned from our grand tour of the west, and it had been a great success.

 

 

In nine days our family of eleven visited seven parks, most of us hiked more than seventy miles, and we traveled in our rented passenger van 1650 miles through breath-taking and awe-inspiring landscapes.  It was a trip we had dreamed about for years and years.  It was a trip we had procrastinated for years, too.  There was always a good reason for delaying it, but we felt like this was the year to tackle it.  Even though our youngest children may remember little of the trip, our oldest son is almost twenty.  Already he is making plans and interviewing for internships that will prevent him from returning to our home next year during his summer break. We needed to make this trip a priority before any of our baby birds left the nest.

My "big boy"

My "baby girl"

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My husband took care of the logistics.  He made the itinerary, planned the route,  and made reservations.  He felt like every other family vacation was just practice for “the big one”.  He executed his plans flawlessly.

We flew to Las Vegas, rented a fifteen-passenger van, and visited the following parks:

Zion National Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bryce National Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Capital Reef National Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Arches National Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Canyonlands National Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Monument Valley Navajo Tribal Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Grand Canyon National Park

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In order to facilitate hiking with the older children, we brought with us a homeschool graduate to babysit the youngest children a few hours each day.  While it may seem unfair that the little ones missed the morning hikes, they really did not mind.  Remember, my children have been raised without television, so the opportunity to stay in a hotel room and watch cartoons is a BIG DEAL to them.

 

Hiking with the big kids

Outings with the little ones

Easy hikes together

Enjoying the view

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

With some variation, our daily schedule followed this routine:

1. Older children, husband, and I rise early for a strenuous hike.  We might be at the trailhead as early as 6 a.m. and hike as far as 12 miles.  The little ones sleep in, eat breakfast at the hotel, and watch cartoons with the babysitter.

2.  We return from our hike around lunch time and eat peanut butter and nutella sandwiches with everyone together.

3.  We load everyone into the car and do a “driving tour” of the park we are currently visiting, or drive on to the next park.  Our driving tours involve getting out at points of interest in each park and taking short hikes with all of the children. Most of these hikes were easy to moderate, with distances between 1 – 3 miles.

4.  We eat supper at a restaurant.  We never eat fast food.  Our supper time is an important time as we review our memories of the day and discuss our plans for the next.

5.  We return to our rooms, just in time to put tired little bodies to bed.

My husband’s plans were well-organized, but not rigid.  We had the flexibility to add to his plan a trip through Monument Valley and a tour of the Hoover Dam.  He referred to numerous guidebooks as he planned our route, but they could not substitute for a trip to the visitor’s center to speak with a park ranger about trail conditions and recommendations.  (Park Rangers are a resource that must not be overlooked! And besides, I think they are among the nicest people on earth.)

The Three Gossips - Arches NP

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To say that the rugged landscape is “vast” is an understatement.  It is really hard to describe what we encountered without overusing words such as “awesome”, “amazing”, and “splendid”.  We did take more than 1200 photographs and I hope share some of these with you, that you, too, may marvel at the mighty workings of the Lord.

The whole earth is filled with awe at your wonders; where morning dawns, where evening fades, you call forth songs of joy.  Psalm 65:8 ESV

Sand Dune Arch



Comments (1) May 31 2011

Photographs and Memories: Old and New

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Bill and Dell

After my father proposed to my mother, he took a job in Austria working for the State Department.  A year later she flew to Austria and married him.  That was quite an adventure for a farmgirl from Tennessee!  The year was 1956.

My parents took every opportunity to explore Europe.  My father bought a VW bus and most weekends they would travel, sometimes in one direction until they spent half their money, then head home.

They would ask farmers if they could camp in their fields, and often were invited in for a meal.  My father was an honest-to-goodness polyglot.  He knew so much of so many languages, he seemed able to communicate with anyone anywhere.  I wish I had inherited his gift for languages.  It was a tremendous comfort to him during his retirement when he suffered from chronic insomnia.  He would listen to foreign radio broadcasts on his short-wave radio for hours on end.

My parents saw a Europe that was rapidly passing away.

Austrian parade

Italy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My father captured great images with a camera, taking more than 2000 slides.  He photographed not only the tourist highlights, but also street scenes and landscapes.

From the Tower of Pisa

Austrian border

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Unfortunately these wonderful images were stored in carousels, and  packed away, where the slides were deteriorating and the images fading fast.  Spots were developing and everything was turning yellow.

San Marino elections

My dad, looking mysterious

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dad and his VW bus

Looking oh-so European

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I love how the photographer is captured in the mirror!

After twelves months, my parents returned to the United States.  Because of family obligations and health problems, they never again traveled to Europe.

Dad's VW lowered onto American soil. The first one in the state of Tennessee!

 

I wanted to rescue these family heirlooms from ruin.  I sent the slides off to a company called Fotobridge and had them scanned, saved as jpegs, and transfered to DVDs.  I was so please with the results.  They not only took care of the originals, but also white-balanced the images.

 

 

 

 

 

 

So why I am telling you this?  Because few things seem to glue memories into our mind as well as photographs.  Even though I was not with my parents in Europe, their photographs recall to me the stories they told me of the places they traveled and the things they saw.  It seems like every parent owes it to their children to document those memories.

 

Even if “shutter speed” and “f-stop” are like foreign words to you, there is almost no excuse for not taking good photographs of your children.  Decent digital cameras can be easily acquired, and there is an abundance of tutorials available to guide anyone to better results.  But the next important step is to keep the camera available and readily USE IT.  You may snap a hundred exposures before achieving one fabulous shot, but it will be so worth it.  Our children grow so quickly and change everyday.  The experiences that are fresh and new to them today may seem uninterestingly familiar tomorrow.

 

This was brought home to me this past Sunday, on Mother’s Day.  My goal was to tidy up the kitchen and then dress for morning worship.  My baby girl was determined to twart me.

 

Caught in the act - again!

My children had given me two bouquets of apricot-colored roses.  My favorite.  My husband had given me a bouquet of spring flowers, which he had delivered  and had waiting for me at the Pink House Restaurant when he took me there for dinner on Friday night.  Very classy.

Touching the flowers

Smelling the flowers

Sharing her bagel

Mesmerized

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Every time I turned my back, my baby girl was up on the table, messing with the flowers.  Touching them.  Smelling them.  Feeding her bagel to them.  She was delighting in them, and I could not keep her away.  I had to set aside my frustration and instead take pleasure in the moment. I grabbed the nearest camera and tried to capture her joy.

Acting so innocent

She is already a bigger girl than she was a few days ago.  And the flowers have lost their magic for her.  How thankful I am that I captured a few snapshots of her delight. When I am an old lady, I should like to remember that day.

 

 

 

Comments (2) May 11 2011